How it works

How Aisle and Stem Works

Aisle and Stem is a floral design and planning service, not a shop. You brief us once. We design the scheme, brief a florist local to your venue to make it, and coordinate delivery and installation. One point of contact, from the first email to the pack down.

How we work

The four steps

  1. Send us the brief. One form. The occasion, the date, the venue and anything you already know about the look. If you do not know the look yet, that is normal and it is our job.
  2. We design the scheme. We come back with a floral direction covering every arrangement the occasion needs, using varieties in season for your month and suited to your venue conditions. You see the scope in writing before anything is ordered.
  3. We brief a local florist. Once you approve it, a written specification goes to a florist near your venue: the arrangement list, dimensions, palette, substitution rule, delivery times, access window and site contact.
  4. They make, we install. The flowers are made close to where they are needed and delivered, set up and, where the job needs it, removed afterwards. You talk to one person from the first email to the pack down.

What a good brief contains

You do not need all of this to start. The first four lines are enough for us to reply with something useful.

DetailWhy we need itNeeded by
DateDecides what is in season and whether the date is availableAt enquiry
Venue and suburbDecides conditions, access, permits and travelAt enquiry
OccasionDecides the arrangement listAt enquiry
Rough guest countSets the number of table arrangementsAt enquiry
Any images you likeFaster than describing a style in wordsAt design
Colours to use or avoidNarrows the palette earlyAt design
Budget rangeLets us scope realistically rather than guessAt design
Bridal party numbersSets bouquet and buttonhole counts8 weeks out
Final table countSets the centrepiece count2 to 4 weeks out
Venue access windowSets the install planConfirmed by us with the venue

What happens after you send the brief

We reply within two business days with either a floral direction or, if something in the brief will not work, a straight explanation of why and what we would do instead. We would rather say that at the start than deliver a compromise on the day.

There is no obligation at that point and no deposit. If the direction is not right, tell us and we will revise it. If it is not for you, that is a fine outcome too.

Why we work through local florists

Fresh flowers do not travel well, and an installer who has worked at your venue is worth more than one who has not. Making the flowers close to where they are needed is simply better work. What most couples lose in that arrangement is coordination, because they end up managing the relationship themselves. We hold that part.

Booking a florist directlyBriefing Aisle and Stem
Who you speak toA different person per supplierOne person throughout
Who writes the scopeYou, implicitly, through a wishlistUs, in writing, before anything is ordered
Design consistencyDepends on each supplierOne scheme across every arrangement
Who chases the venueYouUs
Who solves a late changeYou, between suppliersUs
Where the flowers are madeLocallyLocally, by the same calibre of florist

What we do not do

We do not sell bouquets for delivery, we do not run a shop, and we do not do same day gift flowers. If you want flowers sent to someone, a local florist will serve you better and faster. We design and coordinate florals for occasions.

Common questions

Do you charge for the initial floral direction?
No. You get a direction and a scope with no cost and no obligation. Costs are agreed before anything is ordered.
Can I use my own florist?
Yes. If you already have a florist you want to use, we can design the scheme and write the specification for them to make.
How far ahead should I get in touch?
Six to twelve months for a wedding on a peak season Saturday. Two to eight weeks is usually workable for private events, and we can work to short notice for funerals.
Do you work outside your published markets?
Often, yes. Send the venue and we will tell you honestly whether we can service it properly.

Send us your brief

One form. We come back with a floral direction and a clear scope.

Floral design by Aisle and Stem