Wedding flowers

Wedding Flowers, Designed Around Your Day

Wedding flowers cover far more than the bouquet. A typical Australian wedding needs ceremony florals, an arch or backdrop, reception table flowers and centrepieces, plus buttonholes. Aisle and Stem designs the full set as one scheme so it reads as one wedding, not six separate orders.

Wedding flowers

Wedding flower arrangements for each part of the day

Every wedding has three floral moments and they are not interchangeable. The ceremony is seen close up by everyone at once and photographed against the light. The reception is seen for six hours at table height. The personal flowers are carried, pinned and hugged. Designing them together is what stops the day looking assembled from three different suppliers.

ArrangementWhere it sitsTypical stem countInstall time
Bridal bouquetCarried25 to 45Made morning of
Bridesmaid bouquetCarried12 to 20Made morning of
ButtonholeLapel1 to 3Made morning of
Ceremony archBehind the couple150 to 40090 to 180 minutes on site
Aisle markersChair ends or ground10 to 25 each30 to 45 minutes
Guest centrepieceReception table15 to 35 eachPlaced during turnaround
Bridal table runnerAlong the head table200 to 50045 to 90 minutes

Wedding floral arrangements by setting

The venue does more to the flowers than the colour palette does. A warehouse with 6 metre ceilings swallows anything under a metre tall. A vineyard marquee moves in the afternoon wind. A heritage room with heavy carpet and dark timber needs lighter tones than the same scheme would need outdoors. We design to the room you are actually in.

Wedding ceremony flowers

Ceremony flowers are on show for twenty minutes and in the photographs forever. That is why they carry more of the budget per stem than anything else on the day. The two decisions that matter are whether the arrangement frames the couple or sits beside them, and whether it can be moved to the reception afterwards.

Wedding arch flowers and ceremony installations

An arch is the single most photographed floral piece at most weddings. It is also the one most affected by conditions: an asymmetric arrangement on an outdoor arch needs weighting against wind, and any fresh installation going up more than three hours before the ceremony needs varieties that hold without water.

Church flowers

Churches usually have their own rules, and they are worth checking before the design starts. Common ones are no fixings to the pews or altar, no flowers left overnight, and a set access window between services. We confirm these with the parish rather than assuming.

Reception flowers

Reception florals do the longest shift of the day. They need to survive being carried in during turnaround, sitting under warm lights for six hours, and being nudged by glassware all night. Sturdier varieties earn their place here even when something more delicate would photograph better.

Wedding table flowers

Table flowers are either low enough to talk over or tall enough to see under. Anything between 30 and 55 centimetres blocks the conversation, which is the most common mistake we are asked to fix.

Wedding centrepieces

Centrepieces are where guest count turns into cost, because they are the one item that multiplies. Ten tables to twenty tables doubles this line and nothing else. If the budget is tight, alternating a full centrepiece with a simpler bud vase arrangement across the tables reads as intentional rather than thin.

Cake flowers, and what is safe on food

Flowers on a wedding cake look simple and are the one floral element with a food safety dimension. Several common wedding varieties are toxic if they contact the cake surface, and not every baker or florist checks.

Safe to place on a cakeNot safe in contact with cake
Common examplesRose, chamomile, lavender, cornflower, pansy, violetHydrangea, sweet pea, lily of the valley, delphinium, ranunculus, calla lily, oleander
WhyNon toxic and commonly used on foodToxic if ingested, or sap that transfers to icing
HandlingStems wrapped, no exposed cut ends in the icingUse only if fully barriered, or not at all

The safe method for any variety is the same: wrap the stem, use a barrier or a posy pick, and never push a cut stem directly into icing. If the flowers are unsprayed and edible varieties are specifically wanted, that needs to be specified at order, because standard florist stock is not grown to food standards.

Foliage, and why it decides the look

Foliage is usually a quarter to a third of every arrangement and it is what most couples never mention in a brief. It also does more to the finished character than the flowers do, because it sets the shape.

  • Eucalyptus and gum: silver grey, Australian, holds indefinitely, the default for a reason.
  • Olive: fine, matte, Mediterranean. Suits vineyards and warm palettes.
  • Italian ruscus: dark, glossy, structural. Formal and very hardy.
  • Ferns: soft and airy, but they wilt fast in heat and are best indoors.
  • Native foliage: texture that no imported greenery matches, and the toughest option in an Australian summer.
  • Grasses and dried elements: movement and a modern line, and they cost less than fresh.

If you want a cheaper wedding that does not look cheaper, this is the lever. Shifting the ratio towards good foliage and reducing the focal flower count changes the price more than swapping one flower for another, and it rarely changes how the room reads.

When each arrangement is made and installed

Fresh flowers are perishable, so the running order on the day is not a matter of preference. It is set by how long each piece survives out of water and how long the venue will give you.

  1. Two days out. Structures, frames and any preserved or foliage base are built in the studio
  2. Day before. Stems are conditioned: stripped, cut and rested in water overnight. Nothing fresh is assembled yet
  3. Early morning. Bridal and bridesmaid bouquets, buttonholes and corsages are made and kept in water
  4. Mid morning. Personal flowers are delivered to the wedding party, in as many legs as there are locations
  5. Three to five hours before. Ceremony install begins on site, structural pieces first
  6. Two hours before. Aisle markers, signing table and placed ceremony detail
  7. One hour before. Final check, water top up, crew clears the space
  8. During the ceremony. Reception centrepieces and bridal table are placed while guests are elsewhere
  9. Immediately after the ceremony. Any piece moving from ceremony to reception is relocated
  10. Same night or next morning. Hired structures and vessels removed, per the venue agreement

Two points in that list catch people out. Personal flowers delivered to two addresses are two delivery legs, not one. And the reception cannot be dressed until the guests have left the room, which is why the turnaround window in your run sheet matters more than the design does.

What is in season for your wedding month

Season decides both what your arrangements can contain and what they cost. Australian seasons run opposite to the northern hemisphere, so saved inspiration from an American or British source is showing you flowers that will be out of season here.

Your wedding monthAt its bestAvoid or expect to import
December to FebruaryHydrangea, dahlia, rose, sunflower, natives, gum foliagePeony after December, ranunculus, anemone, tulip
March to MayDahlia, chrysanthemum, rose, protea, berry and autumn foliagePeony, tulip, lilac, hydrangea late in the period
June to AugustRanunculus, anemone, tulip, hellebore, wattle, blossomPeony, dahlia, sunflower, hydrangea
September to NovemberPeony from October, garden rose, sweet pea, delphinium, stockDahlia early, chrysanthemum limited

The full picture, including substitutions when the flower you want is out of season, is in our month by month guide to seasonal flowers in Australia.

How many arrangements a wedding actually needs

Guest count sets the centrepieces, and the bridal party sets the personal flowers. Everything else is a choice. These are the counts we see most often, as a starting point rather than a rule.

GuestsGuest tablesCentrepiecesPersonal flowersCeremony pieces
Up to 404 to 5, or one long table4 to 5, or a 3 m runnerBouquet, 1 to 2 bridesmaids, 2 to 4 buttonholes1 to 2
40 to 805 to 105 to 10Bouquet, 2 to 4 bridesmaids, 4 to 6 buttonholes2 to 4
80 to 12010 to 1510 to 15Bouquet, 3 to 5 bridesmaids, 6 to 8 buttonholes3 to 5
120 plus15 or more15 or moreBouquet, 4 or more bridesmaids, 8 or more buttonholes4 or more

The line that moves most is the centrepieces, because it is the only one that multiplies with guests. If the budget is tight, alternating a full centrepiece with a simpler bud vase cluster across the tables reads as deliberate and typically saves 25 to 35 per cent of that line.

Wedding flowers near you

We design nationally and coordinate a florist local to your venue, so the flowers are made close to where they are needed. Coverage detail sits on the market pages for Sydney, Newcastle, Melbourne, Brisbane, the Gold Coast, the Sunshine Coast and Perth.

Common questions about wedding flowers

How many flower arrangements does a wedding need?
Guest count sets the centrepieces and the bridal party sets the personal flowers. A wedding of 80 to 120 guests typically needs 10 to 15 centrepieces, a bouquet plus three to five bridesmaid bouquets, six to eight buttonholes and three to five ceremony pieces.
Can ceremony flowers be moved to the reception?
Yes, and it usually saves 300 to 800 dollars because you buy one arrangement instead of two. It needs a gap in the run sheet and someone rostered to move it, which we build into the plan rather than leaving to a guest.
How tall should wedding table flowers be?
Either below about 30 centimetres so guests can talk over them, or above about 55 centimetres so they can see underneath. Anything in between blocks the conversation, which is the most common mistake we are asked to fix.
When are wedding flowers made?
Structures and preserved elements are built two days ahead. Stems are conditioned the day before. Everything fresh, including all personal flowers, is made on the morning of the wedding.
Are flowers safe to put on a wedding cake?
Some are. Rose, chamomile, lavender, cornflower, pansy and violet are commonly used on food. Hydrangea, sweet pea, lily of the valley, delphinium and calla lily are not safe in contact with the cake. Any variety needs the stem wrapped and barriered rather than pushed into the icing.

Every arrangement, one scheme

Tell us the venue and the date and we will design the whole day rather than a list of items.

Floral design by Aisle and Stem